Category: Mental Health | Published on: March 27, 2025
When people think about trauma disorders, they often picture flashbacks or emotional breakdowns. But the reality is far more complex. PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) and CPTSD (Complex post-traumatic stress disorder) don’t always show up in obvious ways—they can slowly infiltrate everyday life, affecting emotional regulation, self-perception, relationships, and even the way a person interacts with the world. Some of their most common symptoms are subtle and easily overlooked, blending into the background until their impact becomes undeniable. This blog will uncover some of those lesser-known signs.
PTSD both normal and complex doesn’t just affect those who directly experience trauma; it can also alter the lives of their families, caregivers, and even those who try to support them.
Complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) is a serious condition that can develop after prolonged or repeated trauma, often in situations where escape was not possible. Unlike PTSD, which can result from a single traumatic event, CPTSD typically arises from ongoing abuse, neglect, captivity, or exposure to extreme stress over an extended period. Childhood trauma, domestic abuse, human trafficking, or long-term institutional abuse are common causes.
Here are some signs of CPTSD that go beyond the stereotype:
Avoidance: Avoidance is a natural reaction to pain. But for individuals with CPTSD, it can become a way of life. Many avoid not just reminders of their trauma but also emotions, relationships, and situations that require vulnerability. They might fear being judged, dismissed, or abandoned if they speak openly about what they’ve been through. Some might worry that acknowledging their experiences will disrupt their relationships, careers, or sense of identity. This can lead to deep isolation, where they withdraw emotionally and physically from the people and places that could otherwise support them.
Guilt & Shame: CPTSD is often tangled with deep-seated feelings of guilt and shame. Unlike PTSD, which may involve survivor’s guilt, CPTSD can foster a persistent belief that one is inherently broken or unworthy. Individuals may blame themselves for the trauma they endured, believing they could have done something differently to stop it. They might also struggle with guilt over setting boundaries, prioritizing their own needs, or seeking help. These feelings can lead to cycles of self-punishment, including self-destructive behaviors, unhealthy relationships, or avoidance of support systems.
Emotional Dysregulation: CPTSD disrupts a person’s ability to manage emotions, leading to intense mood swings, emotional numbness, or explosive reactions that seem to come out of nowhere. A person may shift rapidly from deep sadness to anger or from feeling hyper-aware to completely disconnected. Trusting others can be incredibly difficult, and experiencing joy may feel foreign or even unsafe. Unlike PTSD, where emotions may be triggered by reminders of the trauma, CPTSD can create a baseline of emotional instability that affects daily interactions, making relationships and self-expression deeply challenging.
Unexplained Physical Symptoms: Trauma is stored in the body, and for those with CPTSD, physical symptoms often emerge without an obvious medical explanation. These include:
Chronic fatigue
Unexplained muscle tension or pain
Frequent headaches or migraines
Gastrointestinal issues like IBS
Autoimmune-like symptoms
Sensitivity to sensory input (light, sound, touch)
Since these symptoms don’t always directly link to trauma in an obvious way, they are often misdiagnosed or ignored, leading individuals to feel even more disconnected from their own bodies.
Sleep Problems: Rest is essential for healing, yet sleep is often one of the first casualties of CPTSD. Insomnia, nightmares, and night terrors are common, as the brain struggles to process prolonged trauma. Individuals may wake up feeling exhausted despite getting hours of sleep, or they might avoid sleep altogether to prevent nightmares. Hypervigilance—a constant state of alertness—can make it difficult to relax enough to drift off. Some turn to alcohol, medications, or other coping mechanisms to force sleep, but this often worsens symptoms over time.
Just because someone isn’t outwardly showing signs of distress doesn’t mean they aren’t struggling. Unlike PTSD, where symptoms may be more episodic, CPTSD symptoms are often ingrained in a person’s sense of self, shaping their relationships, behaviors, and beliefs in ways that can be difficult to recognize—even for them. Healing from CPTSD isn’t about “getting over it”; it’s about finding ways to live with the past without letting it define the present. Recovery is possible, but it takes time, support, and often professional guidance.
Anyone who has experienced prolonged trauma—especially in childhood—can develop CPTSD. This includes survivors of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, domestic violence, war, human trafficking, or long-term institutional mistreatment.
Yes, CPTSD differs from PTSD in that it results from repeated trauma over time rather than a single event. It affects core aspects of identity, emotional regulation, and relationships in ways that PTSD may not.
Yes. While CPTSD can feel overwhelming, it is treatable with therapy, trauma-focused approaches, and self-care strategies. Many individuals find relief through modalities like EMDR, somatic therapy, and DBT.
Yes, CPTSD can impact memory, particularly when it comes to recalling past trauma. Individuals may experience dissociative amnesia, gaps in their personal history, or difficulty remembering everyday details due to chronic stress and dissociation.